Korean Love Phrases For Dating & Relationships

A couple laying down making a heart shape with their hands

Hey there, lovebirds!

Many people have been asking for Korean love phrases that they can use when dating Koreans. Here is a list to cover what you need!

A couple laying down making a heart shape with their hands

And if you’re not familiar with Korean dating culture yet, it’s useful to get acquainted with it.

We’ve also got a PDF list of the phrases that you can take on the go.

 The Korean love phrases below can be used for many romantic situations, such as:

  • Blind dates
  • First dates
  • Couples
  • Fiancees
  • Spouses

Korean First Date

In addition to phrases, we’ve also added in plenty of romantic Korean words for you.

These are all updated for 2018, so you can feel confident that you’re using the same words that Korean couples use these days.  All of the phrases are in standard form unless otherwise noted. Let’s get to it!


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Two Rules for Korean Love Phrases

Rule #1: Only “You”

First rule of Korean dating phrases

You’ll notice that in many of the Korean love phrases below, there is often no specific word for “you”. That’s because it’s not used often in the Korean language.

Koreans will use the other person’s name, the other person’s, or omit the pronoun “you” all together.

You may see some phrasebooks that use the term “당신” to explicitly say “you”. That’s ok. However, the problem is that Koreans don’t use this term very often, so it sounds a bit strange. It’s very formal to be using it with Korean love phrases. 

Also, it’s a bit of an outdated term that means “honey”, so it can be confusing!

In the expressions below, you usually don’t need the “you” if it’s clear who the recipient is. If it’s unclear, then you can use add their name or title from part (ii) below.

Rule #2: The Korean Name Game

Second rule for Korean dating phrases

Koreans use a hierarchical system for referring to each other. It’s embedded in the language in a number of ways, and they consider it an important way of showing respect.

Simply put, Koreans will talk differently to one another depending on the age difference between them and the other people they speak with.

If you are in a relationship with someone older than you, it’s respectful to use the correct title (“오빠” or “누나”). If your significant other is the same age or younger, you may be able to use that person’s name. It depends on your level of closeness.

Here are the rules for using names and titles:

femaleyounger male(name)민석아 사랑해
femaleolder male오빠오빠 사랑해요
maleyounger female(name)진아야 사랑해
maleolder female누나누나 사랑해요


The rules above will help you correctly use the phrases below. Get practicing so you can shower your significant other with kind words and affection!

Korean Affectionate Names for Dating


Meeting & Dating Korean Phrases

Maybe you’ve got a first date planned. Or perhaps you’ve been meeting this special some for a few weeks?

Use these phrases to get the ball rolling. They will help you from planning the date, all the way up to becoming a couple!

Korean phrases for dates

English한국어 (Korean)Romanization
What is your phone number?핸드폰 번호가 뭐예요?haendeupon beonhoga mwoyeyo?
Let’s talk on KakaoTalk우리 카카오톡 해요uri kakaotok haeyo
Do you have time this weekend?주말에 시간 있어요?jumare sigan isseoyo?
Are you available ________?________에 시간 있어요?________e sigan isseoyo?
I’m busy on________________에 바빠요________e bappayo
Shall I set you up on a blind date?소개팅 해줄까요?sogaeting haejulkkayo?
Shall we go on a date together?우리 데이트 할까요?uri deiteu halkkayo?
Shall we get dinner together sometime?언제 우리 같이 저녁 먹을까요?eonje uri gachi jeonyeok meogeulkkayo?
Shall we go for a short walk?잠깐 산책할까요?jamkkan sanchaekalkkayo?
That was a great evening즐거운 저녁이었어요jeulgeoun jeonyeogieosseoyo
When shall we meet again?언제 다시 볼까요?eonje dasi bolkkayo?
Will you be my boyfriend/girlfriend?우리 사귈래요?uri sagwillaeyo?

You’ll notice a phrase about using KakaoTalk. KakaoTalk is a smartphone chat app that is the preferred app for residents of Korea. If you don’t use it yet, get on it and learn the ins-and-outs pronto! It could be just the boost your love life needs.


Kind & Caring Korean Compliments

These expressions will help you express your admiration for your date or significant other. He or she will appreciate your sincerity and kindness! If you’re close with that person, you can drop the 요 at the end, which would be a more informal way of saying the phrase. 

English한국어 (Korean)Romanization
You are handsome!잘 생겼어요!jal saenggyeosseoyo!
You are charming!매력적이네요!maeryeokjeogineyo!
You are pretty!예쁘네요!yeppeuneyo!
You are so cute!너무 귀여워요!neomu gwiyeowoyo!
You are incredible대단해요!daedanhaeyo!
You look great!멋지네요!meotjineyo!
You are so sweet!정말 친절하네요!jeongmal chinjeolhaneyo!
You make a good first impression!첫 인상이 좋네요!cheot insangi jonneyo!
You are the man of my dreams내가 꿈꾸던 남자예요naega kkumkkudeon namjayeyo
You are the woman of my dreams내가 꿈꾸던 여자예요naega kkumkkudeon yeojayeyo


Affectionate Korean Love Phrases

As you get further along with your Korean relationship, you’ll want to explain your feelings. Use the phrases to show your affection. These phrases are in 반말 (informal language), since they’ll likely be used with a significant other or someone close to you.

English한국어 (Korean)Romanization
I miss you보고 싶어bogo sipeo
I like you좋아해joahae
I like you a lot많이 좋아해mani joahae
I want to see you보고 싶어bogo sipeo
I love you사랑해saranghae
I love you a lot많이 사랑해mani saranghae
I love you too나도 사랑해nado saranghae
Give me a hug!안아 줘!ana jwo!
I want to hug you안아주고 싶어anajugo sipeo
I will give you a hug안아줄게anajulge
I want to kiss you뽀뽀하고 싶어ppoppohago sipeo
Kiss me please뽀뽀해 줘ppoppohae jwo
I want to be with you같이 있고 싶어gachi itgo sipeo
I miss your smile미소가 정말 그리워misoga jeongmal geuriwo
I would like to spend more time with you너랑 더 오래 같이 있고 싶어neorang deo orae gachi itgo sipeo


Heart-to-Heart Korean Expressions

heart to heart Korean phrases

As your feelings become stronger, you’ll need the words to communicate those emotions onto your partner. These expressions should help you accomplish just that! Since you’ll most likley be using these phrases with someone close to you, they are in 반말 (informal) form.

English한국어 (Korean)Romanization
It was love at first sight첫눈에 반했어cheonnune banhaesseo
I’m touched감동 받았어gamdong badasseo
I love you with all my heart진심으로 사랑해jinsimeuro saranghae
I love you more than you know생각하고 있는 것 이상으로 사랑해saenggakago inneun geot isangeuro saranghae
I love you more than words can express말로 표현할 수 없을 만큼 사랑해mallo pyohyeonhal su eopseul mankeum saranghae
I love you more and more everyday시간이 지날수록 더 사랑해sigani jinalsurok deo saranghae
You don’t know how much I love you내가 얼마나 사랑하는지 모를 거야naega eolmana saranghaneunji moreul geoya
I’m crazy about you너에게 반했어neoege banhaesseo
I’m yours나는 니꺼야naneun nikkeoya
We’re a match made in heaven우리는 천생연분이야urineun cheonsaengyeonbuniya
Let’s get married나랑 결혼 해줘narang gyeolhon haejwo


Korean Love Words

Here’s a list of common words that you’ll hear in Korean dating, from cute names to serious lifelong commitments.

English한국어 (Korean)Romanization
secret crush짝사랑jjaksarang
kiss (quick peck)뽀뽀ppoppo
blind date소개팅sogaeting
blind date for marriage맞선matseon
group date미팅miting
boyfriend or girlfriend애인aein


Korean Words to Avoid

korean love phrases to avoid

Some words will brighten your day, and some are bad news. These are the words that you probably don’t want to hear or use, but they’re good to know in order to recognize them.

You may hear them in K-Pop songs or K-Dramas, so now you can listen for them and know what they mean.

English한국어 (Korean)Romanization
cheat on바람 피우다baram piuda
hit on헌팅heonting
broken heart실연sillyeon



Korean Fight & Breakup Phrases

Korean couple fight phrase

In relationships, you have to take the good with the bad. If it wasn’t meant to be, then these Korean breakup phrases will help you make a clean break and move on. 

These phrases are mixed between the standard form and the informal form. If it’s a phrase you’d likely use with someone close to you, then it’s listed in informal form (반말).

English한국어 (Korean)Romanization
I’m not interested관심 없어요gwansim eopseoyo
Leave me alone나를 혼자 있게 해주세요nareul honja itge haejuseyo
You are not my type내 스타일 아니에요nae seutail anieyo
Go away!그냥 가 주세요!geunyang ga juseyo!
Please stop nagging me!바가지 좀 긁지 마!bagaji jom geulji ma!
Our relationship was doomed from the start우리 관계는 처음부터 문제가 있었어uri gwangyeneun cheoeumbuteo munjega isseosseo
Let’s break up이제 헤어져ije heeojyeo


These are just some of the more specific Korean phrases you could learn. We have a lot more Korean phrases to help you study in other categories as well!

Are there any love phrases you would like to know how to say in Korean? If so, leave a comment below and we’ll do our best to add it to the list!


    33 replies to "Korean Love Phrases For Dating & Relationships"

    • Micky

      how do i say “i like someone”

      • 90 Day Korean

        Hi Micky! You can say ‘나는 –를 좋아해요’ (I like –.) ^^

    • Jay

      How do you say “I’m letting you go.”?
      Thank you!!!

    • Donna

      What does this mean? Does this mean I want to share love with you?
      나는 너와 사랑을 나누고 싶어.

      • 90 Day Korean

        This is rather aggressive than that! It means ‘I want to make love with you’. ^^

    • Nichole

      I know the term sok sanghe which is like your inside or soul is wrong or damaged. My mother used to say another phrase which was similar, but more harsh. Do you know the term?

      • 90 Day Korean

        Hi Nichole! I’m not sure, but you can say 서운해 [seounhae] for feeling sad and unfair. ^^

    • Raymond

      how would you say “you look even prettier in person”

      • 90 Day Korean

        Hi Raymond! You can say ‘실물이 더 아름다워요’ [silmuri deo areumdawoyo]. ^^

        • Mellow

          How do you say “You’re mine”

    • mars

      hi! what’s the best way to say, “you’re so cute, you’re making me crazy,” in informal speech? thank you ^^

      • 90 Day Korean

        Hi mars! You can say ‘네가 너무 귀여워서 미칠 거 같아’ [nega neomu gwiyeowoseo michil geo gata]. ^^

    • nanananabatgurl

      What is the proper way to say Happy 800 day anniversary?

      • 90 Day Korean

        You can say ‘800일 축하해’ [800il chukahae]. ^^

    • broooo

      how do you say ” can you be my first kiss? “. its for a video im doing

      • 90 Day Korean

        Hi broooo! You can say “제 첫키스 상대가 되어줄래요?” ^^

    • Chloe

      How can I say, “You guys are so sweet to each other!” ??

      • 90 Day Korean

        Hi Chloe! You can say “두 분은 서로에게 참 다정하네요” ^^


      What is chamsamita mean ?

      • 90 Day Korean

        Hi AMANUEL! I think you mean 감사합니다 [gamsahamnida], It means ‘Thank you’! ^^

    • Luke

      Hi guys!
      Amazing post, if it’s not a problem could you please translate a phrase for me?
      “I would like to stop the time when we are together”
      “I Wish I Could Make Time Stop When We’re Together”

      Thank you xx

      • 90 Day Korean

        Hi Luke! You can say 우리가 함께 있을 때 시간이 멈췄으면 좋겠어. How romantic! ^^

    • jeon jeongguk

      how about “stop making me fall for you.”

      • 90 Day Korean

        Romantic! You can say “넌 계속 네게 사랑에 빠지게 해.” (You make me fall for you over and over again)

    • Mary Rose Flores

      how to say “I am not”(like I flirt? I am not.

    • Yuri

      How can I say “we get back together again” ?

      • 90 Day Korean

        Hi Yuir! You can say 우리 다시 만나자 [uri dasi mannaja] or 우리 다시 시작하자 [uri dasi sijakaja]. ^^

    • Norma Jim

      id like to know how to say “theres nothing i want more than you”

      • 90 Day Korean

        Hi Norma! You can say 나는 너만을 원해 [naneun neomaneul wonhae] as ‘I only want you’. ^^

        • hong

          how to say “You are the best thing that ever happened to me”?

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